I have decide to remove this post. I wanted to provide some resources for people to think more about this issue. But this issue is complex and it is difficult to cover it carefully and briefly.
I will leave one resource because it gives you an idea of the complexity of the issue.
Miraculous Gifts for Today?
by Stanley N. Gundry (Series Editor), Robert Saucy (Contributor), Richard B. Gaffin (Contributor), Sam Storms (Contributor), Doug Oss (Author), Wayne Grudem (Editor)
Zondervan (October 10, 1996)